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the ghost of lobster dinners past

| December 19, 2008

1993: as near as i can figure, lobster dinners started christmas of my junior year of high school. the original guests included my parents and me. the menu has changed little since that first meal: lobster, baked potato, and a salad, although the salad dropped off in the early 2000′s because it just got in [...]

i am angry and ashamed of it

| October 29, 2008

every time i see something about patrick swayze that doesn’t end with “passed away today” i am briefly filled with blinding rage. then regret. then supersadness. then more anger, because being sad doesn’t take away being mad. rinse repeat until i distract myself. it’s not that i don’t like him. it’s not that i wish [...]

2007: in review

| January 1, 2008

so, how’d i do? drink less soda (maybe 1 a day?) well, i’m not sure what “less” was before i got pregnant, but due to pregnancy and breastfeeding, i’ve cut back to 1-2 “doses” of caffeine a day. that’s certainly less than the “triple venti” mornings i used to have. i’d call this one accomplished     [...]

2007 mid-ish year recap

| September 1, 2007

wherein kelly throws herself a whiny pity party and decides upon review that she really doesn’t care about the tense shifting and inconsistent capitalization enough to do anything about it. let’s recap, shall we? January bad: found out my dad’s “spots” were very terminal pancreatic cancer February good: *finally* sold our damn house. bittersweet: found [...]

4:12pm

| April 27, 2007

5/6/46 – 4/27/07 …i’m searching for something profound, or significant, or a bit of an extremely inside joke to cap this post off, but i’m kinda coming up blank.

mood enhancing commerce

| January 13, 2007

sub-titled: how i spent my christmas money it started at the apple store. since mr. jobs decided not to launch any new ipods earlier this week, i was on the fence about what to do. knowing that a new ‘pod update was probably going to hit some time in spring, i finally decided to just [...]

2007: a look ahead

| January 1, 2007

here’s the things that i’d like to do this year: drink less soda (maybe 1 a day?) drink way more water (some in the form of tea) wean myself mostly off of caffeine by march-ish exercise regularly (once week by march, adding a “once” every week every quarter) read one book a month (pitiful goal, [...]

time

| December 28, 2006

ten years ago, when my father’s RA was at its worst and he thought it’d be “fun” to have a couple of heart attacks in the span of about 8 months, i started preparing myself for the fact that he might not make it to 60. eight months ago, due to a form-related fluke, they [...]

you would think…

| August 8, 2005

that if ever there was a game i could win/be better at than my husband by sheer innate ability alone it would be karaoke revolution. i mean honestly after years of years of him cleaning the floor with me on FPS and fighting games, even after i spend hours and hours trying to get competent [...]

kate the goddess

| July 25, 2005

someone once asked me to tell them about my friend kate and i simply said, “she is a goddess.” i then went on and tried to do her justice and to explain why i said that, but it didn’t really impress. then he met her and agreed. she is a goddess. she came in from [...]