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Thanksvember 2012: Week One

| November 1, 2012

November 1st: I am thankful for being part of a family full of storytellers. Even in our darkest moments, we can help each other smile. November 2nd: I am thankful for my rockstar coworkers at Infuz (past and present). The business stuff is just the cusp of what I’ve learned from them, and many have [...]

a-Househunting We Will Go: The Forever Home

| March 5, 2012

We are currently on a quest for a new home. Due to our family’s needs and financial …complications… we’re searching for a very specific kind of home in a very limited area. Since it’s hard to spot that “hidden gem” on paper, we see our share of houses. Sometimes these prospects make for interesting stories. [...]

a-Househunting We Will Go: The Haunted One

| February 26, 2012

We are currently on a quest for a new home. Due to our family’s needs and financial …complications… we’re searching for a very specific kind of home in a very limited area. Since it’s hard to spot that “hidden gem” on paper, we see our share of houses. Sometimes these prospects make for interesting stories. [...]

A Look Ahead: 2011

| January 4, 2011

2010 is officially over now. I’ve been meaning to talk to you about it for months, but life got in the way. It’ll be a bit more concise now. Lucky you. If the second half of 2010 had a theme, it was Challenge is the New Black. A couple of months ago something snapped and [...]

the ghost of lobster dinners past

| December 19, 2008

1993: as near as i can figure, lobster dinners started christmas of my junior year of high school. the original guests included my parents and me. the menu has changed little since that first meal: lobster, baked potato, and a salad, although the salad dropped off in the early 2000′s because it just got in [...]

cold november reign

| October 26, 2008

here’s what’s happening in the next month (in general planning order and including the last week of october): 3+ birthday parties: two dinners, one casino night. (ever wonder why the end of october and the beginning of november is so chock full of birthdays? valentine’s day is appx 38 weeks earlier.) make hella baby food: [...]

one gloomy thought before celebrating

| June 27, 2008

it isn’t father’s day, or his birthday, or the day he died or the funeral or any of those anniversaries that flatten my resistance to the absence of my father. it’s june 21, december 21, and my birthday. last year it smacked me in the face when my dad didn’t call at 10:50 in the [...]

not my best day

| March 31, 2008

so…it’s been a week. and then another week. …and then a third week? surely not. i think it’s only been the two. anyway, my “a week and then i’ll see,” week is totally up. the first week was full of all sorts of potential planning. i didn’t get very far because, well, it wasn’t the [...]

serenity achieved – the payoff

| February 17, 2008

since this is largely about the tattoo, i’ll skim over the first part of the day. despite the unfriendly weather and terrain, ashes were scattered, along with a few silver dollars and some roses. it was harder than i thought it would be. we listened to one of my dad’s favorite songs as we drove [...]

serenity achieved – the setup

| February 16, 2008

my mother has been struggling with the right “moment” to scatter my dad’s ashes. her first targets, their anniversary and new year’s day, had come and gone with a confession of “i’m just not ready yet.” a few weeks ago, she had a new idea. we would scatter his ashes on valentine’s day, and finish [...]